An old post I did on another blog site, just thought it may interest you...

The link is here.

"I attended a training recently, the training is supposed to train us to be a better person, it identify one person to 4 categories (D.I.S.C.)
1. Dominant (D)
2. Influncial (I)
3. Steadiness (S)
4. Calculative (C)

My result is a strong D and C, because of this result, it has help me to make a decision which I can not make for many years, I have decided the management style of the agency in this way: My Way or High Way.. let me explain...

For a person coming from a IT background, I was so used to calculative results, everything i dealt with in the past many years are all controllable under my coding (it's computers, they are supposed to be predictable), the moment I start to deal with people, I realised human are the most uncontrollable 'things' that we all have to deal with everyday, there are too many characters and too many perspectives and visionaries, you can't use a single methods to solve all the problems of human.

Therefore I tried to be adaptive, and try to divert my anger when it was trigger by your opposite, believing that to be a great person or leader is to be very open minded and adaptive to all personalities, I read books, apply the methods, then what happened? After a while the artistic part of me is trying to tell me that I have lost my soul, the part that you just have to be yourself and follow your heart and not your brain, whatever I did for the past few months was not me. I have seen many people who worked in the big corporate for many years and when they finally retired they are like mentally a dummy, no facial expression, no humanly emotion, not following their heart but constantly seeking for a politically-correct answers and statements... I am not like that, and I am not intend to be..

So, since the trainer told us that the profiling of most multi-millionair are under the category of D and C, and many of the profiles I research through the international leaders, I have decided that on the basis that no human will be harmed physically, I will stand by my wisdom and emotion, and follow my heart...

If I do not like something I will voice out the next second, if I do not agree with someone until I can not tolerate, I shoot with words. Afterall, as a D & C, there is no reason to hold my words.

I am tired. Sleep."